Lessons and my Thoughts about Love

I received a text message from someone and thought of answering some of the messages for somehow some people might understand my opinion about it.

1. Sorry was never synonimous to " I won't do it again."

"We say sorry because we don't want to hurt others. And if we really mean it, we say sorry instead of saying that I will not do it again because I don'twant to hurt you again."

2. When he falls- out, it doesn't mean your giving less, its bcause he's asking too much.

"Some people falls-out not because they are asking too much. It is because the person already gets tired of waiting for you to get more serious about the relationship."

3. Crying before breakin up is good, your trying to save the relationship but after is different. Thats stupidity.

"People cry because they are in PAIN. Because of too much LOVE, connections and importance of the person. We cry after the breakup. It is not stupid to crybecause we are just human and we need to take out the pain through crying. Is it really stupid after the crying? I don't think so because we could cherish that moment for in our life we could say to ourself that we did cry because we keep on holding on and we know that deep within we are hoping for a better future."

4. There are no wasted tears, there are only inconsiderate partners.

"Yes we know that tears are never wasted but understand the fact that not all partners are inconsiderate. We are those people who are thinking for our future, we think and balance our life for our own good."

5. Bitternes is often the painful concequences of holding on.

"It is really not bitter when we want to hold the other person. We are just those types who are not afraid of showing what we are and what we feel. We are those types who fight for love till the end."

6. 3rd parties are not the main issues. Its alwyas the two of us.

"Third party should not be involve with our problem.But who do you think make them involve in the firstplace?"

7. Forgiveness is different from 2nd chances

"It's not really for a 2nd chance or for the nth times. We forgive because we believe that someday that you will change."

Quite right?

"Yes in some point but be considerate and understand both parties. That's when you started to get MATUREd about the true meaning of LIFE, of LOVE."

Welcome to my New Family

I was working in Link2Support for about 5 years last October. I started as 1st level Technical Support and as Product Support Engineer before I decided to resign. It was tough decision but the opportunity is waiting for me at the other side of the door. This is once in a lifetime opportunity so I decided to grab it.

Late October, it was my plan to move or to resign the following month because of a little problem of our team and to get rest. There was an opportunity within the company to move to another position and have a chance to go abroad for training. However, I did not make it during the interview so I decided to resign instead. But Trend Micro opens their door and whole-heartedly accepted me to become part of their family. I never thought that I can make it because of the failure I got previously. I am so happy and as of this writing never regret of accepting the opportunity they gave me. All the people around, my Team Leader, colleagues, trainers, the management team are all kind. Add to it they are all generous people, from the lowest rank to our top Management. Trend Micro becomes one of the leading brand of Antivirus from Consumer, SMB to Enterprise Business Units and will celebrate its 20th glorious year this coming year.

Where can you find a Manager who wears a sportie-outlook during a party? Where can you find a Managers who are willing to dress-down and enjoying a kiddie party? hahahah. We got it here at Trend Micro. I am so proud with this company. Though there are so much things to learn I am looking forward to know, to learn, to share my life and to inspire other people.

So Trend Micro, here I go...

The true Meaning of Christmas

I attended the Sunday service this December and the topic of our is about the true meaning of Christmas. This was discussed by our beloved Pastor Oriel of Doulos For Christ World Harvest Ministry. Our church by the way is located in front of Luneta, 5th flr. Masagana Mall in T.M. Kalaw St.
He started by stating about the commercialize meaning of Christmas. He said about people knows Christmas as the timeof giving, sharing, preparing for food, wearing new clothes, a special holiday for people to get merry. Which is right, people should get merry but we have to go back to the true meaning of Christmas and that is all about the birth og our Lord Jesus Christ.
People started to become self-centered on the day of Christmas. Most become disappointed because they think about the gifts they will receive and the bad part is when you haven't receive any and all the people around expects something from you.
People should realize that it is that we celebrate Christmas because it is the day of birth of our God. We should be the one that needs to give gift to God and not to ask from Him. It is His birthday not ours in the first place?
Now lets take note the reasons for having a Christmas day:
1. He came as a ransom for our sin.
2. He calls all the sinner to repent.
3. He opens our morally closed eyes.
4. He divided the family.
5. He excempt us from the divine condemnation
6. He give us an Eternal life.
The teaching was all about Christ, who was born to sacrifice and give Hid own life to save us. So this coming Christmas let us pray, give praise and thank our God for giving us the chance to live eternity with Him. Just accept that we are a sinner, repent, believe that Jesus is our saviour and continue to walk to His path.
Merry Christmas to ALL.

Wants your Blog to become Popular?

I really have no idea how to make this blog popular. However I found tips from the link below if one is interested to be known.

18 Lessons I’ve Learned about Blogging

1. Be Lucky
2. Work hard
3. Use the Power of Exponential Growth
4. Differentiate Yourself
5. Provide Value
6. Target a Niche
7. Diversify
8. Don’t Spread Self too Thin
9. Have a Backup Plan
10. Be Light on Your Feet
11. Relationships are Key
12. Establish Boundaries
13. Don’t read your Own Press
14. Beware of Hype
15. Get a Life
16. Make Mistakes
17. Be Yourself
18. There are No Rules

Facts and information: http://www.problogger.net/archives/2005/12/20/18-lessons-ive-learnt-as-a-blogger/

I want to get TALLER

My current height is 5'7" which is a little taller for an average Fillipino men. However I still wants to get taller. One day when I was buying medicine I noticed a pack of medicine called Cherifer. I know that Cherifer is a supplement for young children who wants to maximize their height. Bad for me because I am already a young adult when this supplement came out to the market. I know there are gadgets that is commercialize that will help to make one taller. I am afraid to try these things for their is no such recommendation from the Medicine professionals.

Back to my story, I was buying a medicine for I had LBM that day when I saw this Cherifer box and it labeled for adult. Wow, I become interested and bought a few capsules of it. I research about the supplement online and there are some testimonials that it did work. Though I believe that it takes a lot of time to see the results, I decided to try it than to regret it later. So started taking Cherifer Premium late October this year. Hahahaha. I change my vitamins and instead take this capsule every night before I sleep. Just to add, I also take a glass of milk with Cherifer hope it will be more effective together.

Guys, just support me with my dream. Once in a while I am checking my height and if this supplement works I will become one of those people who will testify about its effectiveness. Good luck for me.

Learning Martial Arts is not an easy thing

March 2007. After passing the CCNA examination another activity follows. I met a friend from a Quezon City park, a public park where I usually go every weekends to jog. Kuya David is one of the members of Ka Ely's Martial Art team called Mongoose Martial arts. Mongoose Martial arts is an original Filipino based Martial Arts as Ka Ely's told me. From the name itself, the positions and moves are somewhat an act of an animal called Mongoose.

Mongoose is a member of the family Herpestidae, a family of small cat-like carnivores. Some pecies, such as the Indian mongoose, are popularly used to fight and kill venomous snakes, even king cobras. They are able to do this because of their agility and cunning, thick coat and high resistance to the venom, but typically avoid the cobra and have no particular affinity for consuming their meat. Some species of mongoose can be easily domesticated, are fairly intelligent, and can be taught simple tricks, so they are often kept as pets to protect home from vermin.

I joined the team and continue to practice the art of Mongoose later of June. I learned a lot of moves and defense from a simple defense for punching and kicking to defensing oneself for an attacker with a knife or a gun. It is a great experience and investment to learn this things for no one knows when you get yourself into trouble. At least with these basic moves I learned I could use it one day to defend my love ones.

Advertisement: Anyone interested to join the group can send me an email or can contact my master: 09182968759

Facts about Mongoose found in this link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mongoose

I am a Cisco Certified Network Associate

Last February 16, 2007 I took my Cisco Certified Network Associate- CCNA examination somewhere in a testing center in Makati. I was reviewing CCNA for the past 3 months. No training, just a self-paced study though I joined a group of co-workers in Link2support studying Cisco. I know that day that I could pass the exam for I did a lot of sleepless nights and torrid study about it. God is so great for before the examination I learned a lot of tips and collected materials that helped me to pass the examination. Getting a CCNA certification is a requirement for the new position I applied. That is as Product Support Engineer. At the end of the examination it will show you the test result and it was one of the happiest moments of my life when I saw that I passed. I got 949/1000. I am proud to myself for this is another accomplishment, something I earned, something I believe I deserved to have because of my hardwork.The moral lesson, there is always a good result out of your sacrifices and hardwork.

Share Your Blessing

Early this year- January 2007 I joined my College schoolmates for a charity for little kids living somewhere in barangay Holly Spirit in Commonwealth Quezon City. That is the Haligi ng Bata Foundation. It was an unexpected invitation from my college friend before the 2006 ends. It was my plan that year actually to share my blessing however I could not find a friend/s to join me. God is so great for He find ways to fulfill my dream. The picture in this post are the children singing their "Hawak Kamay" version dedicated for us. It is their way of giving thanks for this Post Christmas party we organize for them. I learned from this experience the gift of giving. People should learn how to bring back the blessing to others for it will bring joy to them. No one can explain the happiness when someone shows a big smile because of what you've done. When you see people happy, that is the feeling of fulfillment, a felling you cannot forget for your whole life. I learned to appreciate little things, through appreciation we learned to become contented and understand those little things about life. This is another chapter I could add in my book and hope people will be inspire to do the same for this is an extraordinary things in life that you keep on coming back once you experienced it.

What is your relation with Nonito Donaire?

Since this boxer guy became a superstar many people who knows me, even those people I met, or peole who heard or read my lastname DONAIRE (Pronounced do-nigh-reh), always ask my relation or say congrats about the accomplishment of the boxer Nonito Donaire.

So to make things clear, here's my thoughs about this guy. It become an interest to me to know Nonito for it might possible that my family have relation with him. My great grandfather clan was an origin of Camotes Island somewhere in Cebu but my grandfather moved to Samar Island where he met my great grand mom. My father claimed that Nonito is part of our family clan however I don't believe that for he could not prove to me our relation to this guy. On the other hand it will be a great privilege for me and to our family the accomplishment, honor and legacy this man brings to the world.

So here's some fatcs I've learned about Nonito Donaire:

Name: Nonito Donaire

Alias: The Filipino Flash

Nationality: Philippine

Birthplace: Talibon, Bohol, but some says he came from General Santos City Philippines

Hometown: San Leandro, CA, USA

Born: 1982-11-16

Stance: Orthodox

Height: 5′ 6″

Reach: 173

- Made it to the finals of the US Olympic Trials in 2000 and lost a decision to Brian Viloria.
2000 United States Amateur Light flyweight champion
- Earned his nickname "The Filipino Flash" from Kevin "The Flushing Flash" Kelley
- Injured his jaw in May 2006, preventing him from fighting on Shobox, which gave his brother Glenn the opportunity to fight Caesar Lopez in the Shobox main event.
- Has sparred with Manny Pacquiao, Joel Casamayor, Zahir Raheem, and James Toney.
- Entry music is by his cousin and cornerman Arvin Jugarap.
- Never received his belt from the WBO when he won the Asia-Pacific title
- His brother, Glenn Donaire, is a professional boxer and lost to Viloria in the semi-finals of the Olympic trials.
- Named the 2007 "Most Outstanding Boxer of the Year" by the World Boxing Hall of Fame
- Both Donaire brothers are currently promoted by Gary Shaw.

Facts and information: http://www.boxrec.com/media/index.php?title=Human:48243

December 2007

Dec 13- I am very sleepy at this moment. I could not read any more pages of my manual. I prepared all day yesterday knowing that tonite will be my final presentation. After checking the schedule it will be held next day. I am so tired, actually very sleepy. My eyes are tired, my body is aching. I feel weak. I ate 2 balut yesterday, hoping it will give me strength. It is more than a month now, since I started working at night. Most of the time, I have few hours of sleep. Though I want to sleep longer, I have to force myself to wake up. Why? Because I need to study. I have five products to study. Im on my fifth product now. I should had finish it before my presentation but I haven't. I can't give up my health just for this job. I still need rest. I have to give myself a time to eat and to rest. Still a long way to go. Good luck for me. At around 10 PM, I have my close case presentation regarding IWSS. I don't know if I did well because there were some inquiries that I did not answer correctly. I presented a wrong answer but overall I believe that I did well. Maybe satisfactory as a beginner. Today, I am studyng the processes for 24x7 team.
As days goes by, I am enjoying my 24x7 team. We found out that we all have in common. Everyone loves to eat. We always outside eating our breakfast. They actually did a welcome party for me as being a new member of the team.

November 2007

November 5- This is the day of my orientation. I have to submit my requirements to become an employee of Trend Micro. I met friends who will be my batchmates for the training that will be held next day. We will be assigned in different Team. One for SMB level 1 and the other will be for Level 2 APAC team. Me, I will be a member of 24x7 TAM for Enterprise. It was around 3PM when the orientation for the company, IT, requirements submission finished. I went home, rest because the next day I have to go to the office at night. My training is scheduled at night, around 9PM. Wow. Is that right? training at night. I thought it will be in the morming? That's bad.. heheheh. Gud luck for me.

This is a very hard month for me. I do not have enough sleep because I have to study once I got home. I have to study 5 products with addition with other training modules. I also have to adopt with this new time schedule. I do not have time to do my exercise but I continue to take my vitamins and milk before sleep.

I experience the most compassionate relationship. Don't think bad okay. I said compassionate because this is my first time to give a lot of my time with this special person. Within the day, we talk almost 3 hrs. We send/receive txt messages from morning till night. We always have to talk to the phone when we have the chance.

I don't know but I really like, or say love this person. I called this person "Mahal". We have a lot of conflicts, in priorities, distance problem, status, and conflicts in plans for life. I am very serious about the relationship when I entered to this relationship. I know that is problem, I know love is blind but I am preparing myself for the consequence of my decision.

I quit once, but I really love Mahal and I am hoping for Mahal will change because I feel that seriousness is not part of Mahal's vocabulary. I want a serious relationship, I want to talk about our future but the words that came out from my Mahal's really hurt me that night.

I think a hundred times that weekends about the words of Mahal. I pray to God to give me a clear mind and to decide the best for both of us. I ended the relationship the next day. I was a very taught decision, it really hurts me. I cried all night- this is the first time I felt this way with the other person. This is not the same feeling when I broke-up with my ex-girlfirend. I think it is because of the strong bondage that ties me with my Mahal.

Now, my heart is broken and I don't know if I gonna find another person whom I will love this much. But deep down, I am still hoping that my Mahal will come to me and will change mind.

This time, I can focus with my studies. Now I have alot of time to rest and to study my modules.

But deep down, I am so hurt... Hope to move on soon...

October 2007

The biggest change of my life happened this month. This is the month when I accepted the offer from another company "Trend Micro" as a Technical Account Manager. It was my plan to resign this month. However an ex-officemate referred me with this company. And because of that I'll be moving to this company next month. I resigned, effective on the day of my birthday- October 16. I celebrated it in the office, because I also have to process my clearance. I also got the chance to celebrate my birthday with the street children- thursday that week. It was a very fulfilling when you help and bless other people. Later that week, I am with my close friends. I have a schedule for wedding to attend in Laguna. He was my friend at Link2Support- Dexter. The next day-Saturday, I went to Enchanted Kingdom with my PLM team.That was my first time in Enchanted Kingdom. It is located in Sta. Rosa Laguna. So for two consecutive days, I am tourist in Laguna.The biggest challenge for me was when I rode the Spaceshuttle. It is a rollercoaster that goes around-360 degree. It was a very exciting and challenging ride. Good LOrd, my nose doesn't bleed after the ride.

I never thought that I'm gonna love driving a Go-cart. My adrenaline goes high as I've started the engine. I want to get to the finish line first. I got a little accident because of that-but there is no wound. Hahahaha. I also love the one they called jungle log. That was the ride wherein you ride in the a log-like vehicle and you will get wet once it goes down from the high level.

Vikings away hahahaha, I told my partner to lift both hands up high but I was afraid to do so. I only lift the other hand while the other was holding with my partner.

I never ride in a ferriswheel before. And now I got the chance to ride and got experience to be on the highest peek in that place. I went back being a kid that day. And my last ride? It was the carrosel.

Before we went home, we enjoyed the fireworks display held late at night.That was my last day with my officemates.

Another news about me, I invested for a lot somewhere in Taytay Rizal.

I also met one of the special person in my life. I got a very memorable experience with this friend and it change my life since then.

August-September 2007

I met a lot of friends through the internet. I met a nice Orthodox priest. He is a veryrational, generous and very kind hearted but a strict priest. He tought me a lot of things about life. He refresh my mind about the reality about life. I become a chat addict at this time. Heheheh. I love chatting to different kinds of people. I met aforeigner and co-filipino with different kind of personalities. I met one person that later on become so close to me that I think of will become a big part of my life-my destiny. Late September, I was rejected with the girl I was hoping she will be my girlfriend. It was my mistake because she is taken already. No one knows but she is the second girl who rejected me as of this month. Bad for me.. huhuhuhuhuhu.

Early June 2007

I know that there is a problem with our Team. It seems that our client is not satisfy with the performance, or maybe with the output of the team. I was moved from PKI Team to APS Team due to lack of manpower.I was not informed that I will not be billable- billable manpower. I just doing my job, doing the assigned tasks but have no direct contact with the clients. Our Manager was moved to another Department. A new Manager was introduced. We were hoping that she will make a good negotiation with the clients. But time past and there was no concreate plan on how to win our client back.The team always on meeting, being proactive, planning for the future of the team. Sometimes we have to stay in the office-did a double shift to finish a report. Most of the time I stayed in the office for around 10-12 hrs. just to finish my reports. Lately, there were few tasks needed to deliver. I often find myself doing nothing.

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