I tried to keep you
But the world is taking you away
I tried to be with you
But the world is so unfair
They keep on making us apart
You are the answer to my prayer
You are whom I've waited for so long
You make my life complete
Your smile takes my breath away
Your my life
There is so much I want to tell you
Everytime we talk I am loosing stories
The truth is I have lots of things to tell you
But my mouth is not working
My mind becomes idle when we talk
All I want is to see you
All I want is to hug you and kiss you
All I want is to be with you
All I want is to live my life
To be with you for the rest of my life
Every single day
I can't help but to think of you
Whenever my mind becomes idle
Only your face I remember
The day you first hold my hand
The day my lips touches yours
The day when my body touches yours
I can't wait to do it again
I can't wait to be with you again
I can't help but to think of you all day
Coz your my life
You alone completes my life.
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Monday, May 05, 2008
Monday, March 10, 2008
Romantic strategy from our Office Mate experts
I become interested about this article on AOL when I saw it. After accepting this new work in Trend, most of the time I spend my life at work. During my rest days all I can do is to go to my room and sleep. Most of the time I spent almost 10 hrs at work. And then I keeps on studying about the products, attend trainings, etc. It is all about work.
How about my love life? My social life? Hehehehe.
Let me share this article and see if we can relate on this. I know that most of the relationship started at work. Dates, yah we guys I believe were able to date most of the girls in the office. Hehehehehe. Which is true.
So if you’re thinking of making some romantic work history of your own, a few words of encouragement and strategy from our Office Mate experts …
1. Take your time.Taking it slow is important in any relationship, but it’s crucial when considering a coworker who as could easily be your wonderful future spouse as your insane future ex. And this goes triple for we Yers, who, to put it gently, are perhaps most likely to fall prey to that disaster-waiting-to-happen otherwise known as the happy-hour hookup. (Seriously. Remember “How much is too much at happy hour?”)“If you jump into an office relationship and turn it into a hookup, you’re not taking advantage of the one thing that meeting someone at the office offers you — the advantage of time,” says Losee. “That’s silly, and it’s just going to lead to drama.” Instead of letting Cupid catch you unawares (or, um, un-sober) at the local watering hole, take the opportunity to get to know your potential office mate as well as possible before pursuing a relationship.
2. Get out of the office.“Just because it’s an office romance doesn’t mean it’s conducted in the office,” says Olen, who cautions against mooning over your honey in his or her cubicle, or otherwise making yourself insufferable and/or an obvious target for downsizing. This extends to technology, too: Your office romance does not count as office work, so don’t use company tools to carry it out. Because you could find yourself in any number of unpleasant situations, like one Office Mate source, who found herself facing a less-than-sympathetic boss armed with printouts of her instant messenger pillow talk. So try to avoid that.But doom and gloom aside, knowing your office mate outside of work is ultimately good for the relationship. “You don’t want to be two soldiers in a foxhole, thrown together because you work together,” says Olen. “You want to make sure you have more to talk about than work. And if you don’t, then you should take a strong look at your relationship, because you don’t want to change jobs and realize that you need to change boyfriends.”
3. It’s all about the rules.The biggest potential pitfall in an office romance is, of course, an office breakup. Any relationship split can be messy, but things can get especially awkward when coworkers part ways. Handle it wrong, and not only can a bad breakup ruin your reputation at work, it can end your job altogether. So our experts say, do yourself a favor and lay down some ground rules at the very start. “It’s much easier to do when you’re first dating, when you’re in love and it’s all very theoretical, than when you’re at each others’ throats,” says Olen.And even if your partner doesn’t respect the parameters when things go awry, the key is to remain professional and above it all — even if he or she is determined to bring the drama to work and risk taking you both off a professional cliff. But chances are, Olen says, it won’t come to that: “The office romance is the last bastion of old-fashioned courting. Because you were friends, you can remain friends. And you have a different history, because you weren’t always a couple.”
4. Think normal. Many office romantics suffer from serious anxiety. Can you tell? And if so, whom? And how much? “The first impulse when you start dating someone at the office is to drop out of the office gang,” says Losee, “because that’s the best way you can think of not to divulge anything. But you’re just alienating yourself from your network.” It’s possible, she says, to behave with dignity and intelligence, still be part of the group, and be respected for it. “Besides, they don’t want to know all the details!”And speaking of details, avoid PDAs. Married couples don’t neck at company dinners, and neither should you. But you shouldn’t stay in hiding forever, either. “Why does etiquette exist?” Losee asks. “To make people feel comfortable. Early on, discretion makes people comfortable. And as a relationship progresses, and everyone’s aware, openness makes them comfortable.”
5. Don’t worry; no one really minds. Somewhere, somehow, many of us got the notion that office romances were right up there with embezzlement and miniskirts on the list of corporate crimes. Not so, say the Office Mate experts. “Contrary to myth,” says Olen, “most people don’t disapprove. Well over two-thirds are happy for you or don’t care.” It’s a good idea, if you’re considering an office romance, to check if your company has an official policy on dating at work, but the truth is that many companies don’t, and those that do tend to focus on dating subordinates and other potential harassment issues.That doesn’t mean you should keep your boss out of the loop — after all, you don’t want him or her finding out about your love affair third-hand — but you should go in as a courtesy, not cowering in fear. And believe it or not, many HR professionals are actually supportive of office romances, since nothing builds company loyalty like being in love with a coworker. There’s even evidence that after falling in love, your productivity can increase 20 percent. “It stands to reason,” explains Losee, “you’ve got that buzz on, you’re excited to come to work, you want to impress your honey. You’re committed, and you’re going to produce.”
Link: http://jobs.aol.com/article/_a/the-gig-love-blooms-at-the-office/20080304121809990001
How about my love life? My social life? Hehehehe.
Let me share this article and see if we can relate on this. I know that most of the relationship started at work. Dates, yah we guys I believe were able to date most of the girls in the office. Hehehehehe. Which is true.
So if you’re thinking of making some romantic work history of your own, a few words of encouragement and strategy from our Office Mate experts …
1. Take your time.Taking it slow is important in any relationship, but it’s crucial when considering a coworker who as could easily be your wonderful future spouse as your insane future ex. And this goes triple for we Yers, who, to put it gently, are perhaps most likely to fall prey to that disaster-waiting-to-happen otherwise known as the happy-hour hookup. (Seriously. Remember “How much is too much at happy hour?”)“If you jump into an office relationship and turn it into a hookup, you’re not taking advantage of the one thing that meeting someone at the office offers you — the advantage of time,” says Losee. “That’s silly, and it’s just going to lead to drama.” Instead of letting Cupid catch you unawares (or, um, un-sober) at the local watering hole, take the opportunity to get to know your potential office mate as well as possible before pursuing a relationship.
2. Get out of the office.“Just because it’s an office romance doesn’t mean it’s conducted in the office,” says Olen, who cautions against mooning over your honey in his or her cubicle, or otherwise making yourself insufferable and/or an obvious target for downsizing. This extends to technology, too: Your office romance does not count as office work, so don’t use company tools to carry it out. Because you could find yourself in any number of unpleasant situations, like one Office Mate source, who found herself facing a less-than-sympathetic boss armed with printouts of her instant messenger pillow talk. So try to avoid that.But doom and gloom aside, knowing your office mate outside of work is ultimately good for the relationship. “You don’t want to be two soldiers in a foxhole, thrown together because you work together,” says Olen. “You want to make sure you have more to talk about than work. And if you don’t, then you should take a strong look at your relationship, because you don’t want to change jobs and realize that you need to change boyfriends.”
3. It’s all about the rules.The biggest potential pitfall in an office romance is, of course, an office breakup. Any relationship split can be messy, but things can get especially awkward when coworkers part ways. Handle it wrong, and not only can a bad breakup ruin your reputation at work, it can end your job altogether. So our experts say, do yourself a favor and lay down some ground rules at the very start. “It’s much easier to do when you’re first dating, when you’re in love and it’s all very theoretical, than when you’re at each others’ throats,” says Olen.And even if your partner doesn’t respect the parameters when things go awry, the key is to remain professional and above it all — even if he or she is determined to bring the drama to work and risk taking you both off a professional cliff. But chances are, Olen says, it won’t come to that: “The office romance is the last bastion of old-fashioned courting. Because you were friends, you can remain friends. And you have a different history, because you weren’t always a couple.”
4. Think normal. Many office romantics suffer from serious anxiety. Can you tell? And if so, whom? And how much? “The first impulse when you start dating someone at the office is to drop out of the office gang,” says Losee, “because that’s the best way you can think of not to divulge anything. But you’re just alienating yourself from your network.” It’s possible, she says, to behave with dignity and intelligence, still be part of the group, and be respected for it. “Besides, they don’t want to know all the details!”And speaking of details, avoid PDAs. Married couples don’t neck at company dinners, and neither should you. But you shouldn’t stay in hiding forever, either. “Why does etiquette exist?” Losee asks. “To make people feel comfortable. Early on, discretion makes people comfortable. And as a relationship progresses, and everyone’s aware, openness makes them comfortable.”
5. Don’t worry; no one really minds. Somewhere, somehow, many of us got the notion that office romances were right up there with embezzlement and miniskirts on the list of corporate crimes. Not so, say the Office Mate experts. “Contrary to myth,” says Olen, “most people don’t disapprove. Well over two-thirds are happy for you or don’t care.” It’s a good idea, if you’re considering an office romance, to check if your company has an official policy on dating at work, but the truth is that many companies don’t, and those that do tend to focus on dating subordinates and other potential harassment issues.That doesn’t mean you should keep your boss out of the loop — after all, you don’t want him or her finding out about your love affair third-hand — but you should go in as a courtesy, not cowering in fear. And believe it or not, many HR professionals are actually supportive of office romances, since nothing builds company loyalty like being in love with a coworker. There’s even evidence that after falling in love, your productivity can increase 20 percent. “It stands to reason,” explains Losee, “you’ve got that buzz on, you’re excited to come to work, you want to impress your honey. You’re committed, and you’re going to produce.”
Link: http://jobs.aol.com/article/_a/the-gig-love-blooms-at-the-office/20080304121809990001
Monday, February 25, 2008
Finding the Best gift to your girl
For those guys like me who have problem of thinking the best gift for your girl then you may consider the following:
Do's:
1. Feel your way around and watch for changes. I can't remember what exactly this means? But let me provide what I think about it. For me, we have to take time finding a special gift or things you think your girl wants. Not just an ordinary stuff toy or flowers but something that she cam treasure.
2. Put your effort into finding out exactly how she likes it. Remember her reaction on times when you were together on things when you passby in a boutique or in a store. This will provide you an idea what gift she wants.
3. Gauge her reaction. When the girl said "OK" to your gift then she is faking it. If she really likes it you can find her eyes shining, excited and if you are lucky she gonna hug or even kiss you. Hahahahhaha.
Don't:
1. Don't try to hard or force the issue. Never try too hard when giving a gift. Give a gift that is something worth to keep. Though not precious, it is your love, yourself that is most important here.
2. Don't be afraid to experiment. Yes, for me I love experimenting especially when giving. I always want a personal touch on my gift. Spend some time in making a nice message on the card.
3. Don't ask what she wants. Girls like excitement, and you can see it everytime they receive a gift. So do not spoil their excitement. Never ever ask what she wants.
4. If you want to give her some kind of gadget. Give gifts like an iPod, MP3/4, or something that is new or hot. If she is the kind of Music lover, I advise to give her a Music player that contains all her favorite songs.
5. If you want to give her jewelries. I never thought that giving a jewelry depends on the occassion. A stone jewelry is for special occassion like when you are about to propose to the woman. Save money for a diamond boy. Give her an earrings, bracelet or a necklace when she becomes your girl already.
6. If you want to buy her lingerie. I don't know but I never plan of giving a lingerie to my girl. I am not expert in measuring their size.
7. If you want to give her flowers. For me this is the best gift we can give to our girl. I never seen a girl rejected a flower unless their is an issue?
Do's:
1. Feel your way around and watch for changes. I can't remember what exactly this means? But let me provide what I think about it. For me, we have to take time finding a special gift or things you think your girl wants. Not just an ordinary stuff toy or flowers but something that she cam treasure.
2. Put your effort into finding out exactly how she likes it. Remember her reaction on times when you were together on things when you passby in a boutique or in a store. This will provide you an idea what gift she wants.
3. Gauge her reaction. When the girl said "OK" to your gift then she is faking it. If she really likes it you can find her eyes shining, excited and if you are lucky she gonna hug or even kiss you. Hahahahhaha.
Don't:
1. Don't try to hard or force the issue. Never try too hard when giving a gift. Give a gift that is something worth to keep. Though not precious, it is your love, yourself that is most important here.
2. Don't be afraid to experiment. Yes, for me I love experimenting especially when giving. I always want a personal touch on my gift. Spend some time in making a nice message on the card.
3. Don't ask what she wants. Girls like excitement, and you can see it everytime they receive a gift. So do not spoil their excitement. Never ever ask what she wants.
4. If you want to give her some kind of gadget. Give gifts like an iPod, MP3/4, or something that is new or hot. If she is the kind of Music lover, I advise to give her a Music player that contains all her favorite songs.
5. If you want to give her jewelries. I never thought that giving a jewelry depends on the occassion. A stone jewelry is for special occassion like when you are about to propose to the woman. Save money for a diamond boy. Give her an earrings, bracelet or a necklace when she becomes your girl already.
6. If you want to buy her lingerie. I don't know but I never plan of giving a lingerie to my girl. I am not expert in measuring their size.
7. If you want to give her flowers. For me this is the best gift we can give to our girl. I never seen a girl rejected a flower unless their is an issue?
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Lessons and my Thoughts about Love
I received a text message from someone and thought of answering some of the messages for somehow some people might understand my opinion about it. 1. Sorry was never synonimous to " I won't do it again."
"We say sorry because we don't want to hurt others. And if we really mean it, we say sorry instead of saying that I will not do it again because I don'twant to hurt you again."
2. When he falls- out, it doesn't mean your giving less, its bcause he's asking too much.
"Some people falls-out not because they are asking too much. It is because the person already gets tired of waiting for you to get more serious about the relationship."
3. Crying before breakin up is good, your trying to save the relationship but after is different. Thats stupidity.
"People cry because they are in PAIN. Because of too much LOVE, connections and importance of the person. We cry after the breakup. It is not stupid to crybecause we are just human and we need to take out the pain through crying. Is it really stupid after the crying? I don't think so because we could cherish that moment for in our life we could say to ourself that we did cry because we keep on holding on and we know that deep within we are hoping for a better future."
4. There are no wasted tears, there are only inconsiderate partners.
"Yes we know that tears are never wasted but understand the fact that not all partners are inconsiderate. We are those people who are thinking for our future, we think and balance our life for our own good."
5. Bitternes is often the painful concequences of holding on.
"It is really not bitter when we want to hold the other person. We are just those types who are not afraid of showing what we are and what we feel. We are those types who fight for love till the end."
6. 3rd parties are not the main issues. Its alwyas the two of us.
"Third party should not be involve with our problem.But who do you think make them involve in the firstplace?"
7. Forgiveness is different from 2nd chances
"It's not really for a 2nd chance or for the nth times. We forgive because we believe that someday that you will change."
Quite right?
"Yes in some point but be considerate and understand both parties. That's when you started to get MATUREd about the true meaning of LIFE, of LOVE."
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